First conditional sentences are based on fact in real time. They express a very possible condition and its result.
If you pass your exams, I'll buy you a car.Second conditional sentences are not based on fact. They express a situation which is contrary to reality in the present and future. This unreality is shown by a tense shift from present to past.
If I were taller, I'd join the police force.Third conditional sentences are not based on fact. They express a situation which is contrary to reality in the past.
If you'd come to the party, you'd have had a great time.I wouldn't have met my wife if I hadn't gone to France.Each of the clauses in a conditional sentence can have a different time reference. The result is a mixed conditional.
If we had eaten (we didn't), we wouldn't be hungry (we are).I wouldn't have married her (I did) if I didn't love her (I do).The tense usage with wish, if only, and I'd rather is similar to the second and third conditionals. Unreality is expressed by a tense shift.
| Structure | Meaning | Example |
|---|---|---|
| I wish / If only + Past Simple | Present unreal wish | I wish I were taller. (But I'm not.) |
| I wish / If only + Past Perfect | Past regret | If only you hadn't said that! (But you did.) |
| I'd rather + Past Simple | Preference about another's action | I'd rather you didn't wear lots of make-up. (But you do.) |
I'd rather you … is often used as a polite way to tell someone to do something differently. The negative form I'd rather you didn't … is especially useful as a polite way to say 'no'.